What do I
tell someone who's going through a challenging life phase? What if this someone
is me? How do I lovingly persuade myself that "this too shall pass"?
How instead of getting stuck in the moment and panicking I embrace myself for
the obstacles because they are a necessary nudge to shake me up, make me move
forward?
If you are
settled into your sweet comfort, submerged in the haze of status quo, rest
assured Lady Fate will come with a huge bat and give you a much needed blow.
Before you know it, you no longer gaze sleepily at your possible destiny, you
run toward it as fast as you can, before another blow finds you.
And it
doesn't matter if while on the road of trials you remain strong and keep your
face and dignity, or you succumb to the pain and fear, and wail like a wounded
animal. The only thing that counts is that you keep pushing forward.
Many
warriors scream on the top of their lungs as they lead the way into the battle.
It helps scare the enemy but also suppress, deafen their own fear. Maybe I too,
should give in to panic and yell out "I'm scared", and then repeat it
a hundred, two hundred times, till it loses its meaning and power over me.
What do I
tell myself in this trying times? That I'm given a loving push and, though it
hurts now, it will take me to a new place, my next train station where I'll get
off and experience life all over again. Things always have a way of working out
and someone knows what they are doing, putting me through this obstacle maze.
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