tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9207982360417206747.post1439746536834002155..comments2012-10-30T13:25:53.640-07:00Comments on inside out: On Loneliness and Letting People InAyselhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17253565149237467005noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9207982360417206747.post-13994885801701677632010-03-02T13:54:57.231-08:002010-03-02T13:54:57.231-08:00Hi Aysel,
I do enjoy contributing like this, offe...Hi Aysel, <br />I do enjoy contributing like this, offering a second opinion you can do something with.<br />I can see why you value different opinions as I love those as well.<br />I am very fortunate as this is what happens on WomenLikeMe and it is fantastic. <br />We all benefit so much as indeed otherwise we just keep going around in circles in our heads. <br />I am so glad you feel better, relationships are important aren't they? <br />Lots of love, WilmaWilma Hamhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11471301033855335382noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9207982360417206747.post-70220883742506158102010-03-02T06:40:25.782-08:002010-03-02T06:40:25.782-08:00Hi Wilma! "Stroke of genius" indeed - th...Hi Wilma! "Stroke of genius" indeed - that's the thinking out of the box I lack! I think you just accurately identified the core of my problem - conversation based relationships. That's why it's so good to have a second opinion instead of sending my mind on the same circles over and over. But you are right, I got so focused on having meaningful conversations - I put everything else aside as secondary. I have so much rethinking to do! Thank you for giving me a direction to explore. Your positive attitude already made me feel better and stopped me from sinking into the darkness of self-pity and disappointment.Ayselhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17253565149237467005noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9207982360417206747.post-28044975984674571212010-03-01T20:56:36.292-08:002010-03-01T20:56:36.292-08:00Oh Aysel.
This sounds familiar.
I have noticed t...Oh Aysel. <br />This sounds familiar. <br />I have noticed that conversation based relationships always go that way. Because in the end those are based on listening and it usually was me too who listened. <br />Once a stroke of genius hit me, why not have different intention and that is doing something with others that I love doing. At least that was not one sided but fun for everybody, kayaking, walking, badminton. That worked a treat. <br />I believe that lasting relationships are based on doing things together not just conversations. <br />The same with men. John and I got on so well because we loved doing things together and from there we ended up living together. When you do things you get to see the person in action and that makes all the difference. <br />Love WilmaWilma Hamhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11471301033855335382noreply@blogger.com